A Wedding That Smashed The Patriarchy In More Ways Than One

"We do not consider a girl to be a commodity." Four women solved this writer's quest for a wedding without “patriarchal” rituals. 👰 Thanks to My Canvas Talk for the footage.

08/04/2021 16:42
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  • Anurag B.
    12/07/2021 13:52

    That lady spoke like a true feminist. Absolutely no logic at all.

  • Vishwanath H.
    02/06/2021 04:44

    It's a bong , run

  • Ŕakhì Ś.
    25/05/2021 13:41

    I think the lady has not studied Indian Ideology well. Hindus see their daughters in form of Goddess, so once she leaves her parental home(Vidayee), she leaves behind rice(in the form of Goddess Annapurna) as a blessing for the family & not as a debt & secondly Kanya daan is not giving away daughters. It is one of the most sacred ritual that sets free daughters parents from all the bondages. Before challenging any Hindu rituals, go to the shastras thoroughly where one will find & understand the depth of Hindu Samskaras which are so profound & meaningful.

  • Ankita D.
    24/05/2021 07:18

    They are doing somthing revolutionary...but charges are too high..not everyone can afford them..which i find really upsetting, somewhere I find it taking advantages of others emotions and urge of doing somthing unconventional and making profit out of it...beleive it or not i myself have ditched the kanyadaan and kanakanjali process and an ordinary priest have performed our wedding...but yes, if you can afford to spend that much then you can definitely hire them..

  • Saumyajit G.
    24/05/2021 06:12

    There are 8 different kinds of Marriage More than half of them are without any rituals Choose from them Want expensive gifts but too nosy about the rituals too

  • Jyoti S.
    05/05/2021 07:47


  • Ruby P.
    28/04/2021 02:11

    This is what happens when a lousy piece of shit, having knowledge about only sexual relationships, tries to define Hindu rituals of marriage. She is absolutely a bigot, without having a comprehensive ability to understand what Vivah is all about and the meaning of their rituals, manipulating it according to her feminist shallow understanding to get into the limelight. This idiot old feminist woman has no right to destroy the tradition of Hindu marriage. If she has any issues, then she should start her own feminist secular faith and create new rituals which are in no manner copy of Hindu marriage rituals and shouldn't have any similarity with Hindu weddings, where couples get married even by hugging, kissing or even having publicly int*rcourse as feminism wants to break away all shackles of so-called patriarchy. But, this feminist woman has no right to distort Hindu marriage traditions, so f*ck off old feminist lady!

  • Indranil G.
    27/04/2021 16:27

    I think people need to be educated about our cultural values so that they have a certain level of understanding of our rituals. Only after that they can make a conscious decision of what is right and what is wrong rather than having a preformed and biased opinion against hinduism which are mostly influenced by western concepts or sometimes even politics. Also i think brut has nice posts but I am also disappointed in brut after observing that many of bruts posts are directed against or in favour of certain political parties and sects .

  • Sanchita K.
    27/04/2021 07:11

    Sanchita Mukherjee

  • Ritabrata B.
    25/04/2021 23:30

    In these days, our generation, dont even care Do whatever your heart says Our religion is more open minded than any other in this world

  • Anamika M.
    25/04/2021 20:46


  • Debaroti C.
    24/04/2021 14:35


  • Souvik D.
    23/04/2021 04:48

    99% of Bengali people goes to weddings for eating they don't give a damn about who weds who. Those marriage invitation cards ends up lying in the attic. But yeah I like this change but at the same time no one literally cares. Your video would be lying in a corner of Facebook server hardly to be watched, and marriages would continue as per Hindu traditions.

  • Kaushik S.
    19/04/2021 03:56

    I already feel sad for the groom. His life is effectively ruined. Poor choice, bro...RIP!!!🤣🤣🤣

  • Mayank R.
    18/04/2021 16:05

    Disgusting Jaake Court Marriage Karna Phir Yeh Drame Kyu Kar Rahi Hai Attention Seeking Ke Liye Na ? :3

  • Abhigyan D.
    18/04/2021 13:53

    thats ok it wasnt a wedding after all when all the rituals were not followed correctly and was a photo op just for activism.Or may be the girl and her da suffer from some kind of GUPT ROG bexause some really good women refuse themselves to be given away.

  • Yash T.
    18/04/2021 11:56

    Goojeet kaale maide ki shakal wali auraatein hi kyu hoti hai aese videos mai

  • Krishna V.
    18/04/2021 11:40

    Cringe ewww

  • Anushka C.
    16/04/2021 13:00

    i am serious this time. I give a fuck about what your zo called "Gosai" dynasty thinks of. These are my rules. Accept or leave.

  • Nikhilchandra S.
    16/04/2021 05:52

    Latest trend is to oppose Hindu traditions without actually understanding them , at the same time ape stupid concepts from the west under the guise of modernism. ( Eat a penis like cake before wedding ) Not all old is regressive and not all modern is progressive. Kanyadaan Doesn't mean giving the kanya like a commodity! Max Mueller would be proud!

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