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The Human Side to Surrogacy

"These women really are doing something which is outstanding and exceptional." Could you carry a child for someone else? A new film looks at four women who made the decision to become surrogates.

4 women who made the decision to become part of the growing phenomenon of surrogacy

Commercial gestational surrogacy — when the paid carrier has no genetic connection to the baby, is banned in New York, Louisiana, and Michigan.

In her mid-30s Chelsea Frei was inspired to carry a child for someone else. “Yeah. So, I will probably cry. My first daughter would be 10 this Halloween, and she died. And it just really brought to light the desire people have to have families and not be able to have families. For me, the key takeaway really is how beautiful it is to bring life to the world, irrespective of the channel that you're using for that”

Ernesto, the intended parent, turned to surrogacy in the U.S. after trying adoption and surrogacy in Ukraine and Thailand. “The pregnancy was smooth. Nothing was wrong. And then she was born still. And you don't plan for that. But to have that taken away, I feel like I could really relate to Ernesto and families that just want to have a family. And it just really drew me in to finding a way to make that happen for someone.”

Filmmaker Beth Aala, who nearly became a surrogate herself, spent 3 years filming 4 surrogates for the documentary, Made in Boise. “For me, I wanted to tell a different kind of story, because I think that is the narrative that most people presume is that it's for the money. I was really surprised at how the surrogates and the parents connected in a way that I didn't expect them to. It really kind of spoke to like families today and how they are all made up in different kinds of ways. And that solidified that through this experience.”

Made in Boise is docuseries that follows four women who made the decision to become part of the growing phenomenon of surrogacy.

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71 comments

  • Missy Q.
    02/29/2020 19:18

    No reason NOT to stay in contact🤦‍♀️🙄 I’ve adopted two of my children and have a great open relationship with both of their biological parents the more people to love your child the better some people are just so insecure SMH

  • Derek N.
    02/26/2020 06:05

    I have severe PCOS and have never been pregnant. We can't afford adoption or surrogacy. It's honestly heartbreaking. I know these families are so so grateful for such good hearted people to help in this way.

  • Tye G.
    02/23/2020 00:40

    As a woman who has been trying for 3 years and 5 miscarriages to be told i will most likely never carry, and seeing my husband's heart break I would like to say thank you for doing such a beautiful thing for women like myself.

  • Jena K.
    02/21/2020 02:35

    ❤️

  • Courtney H.
    02/21/2020 01:06

    Wish I could!! I’m a high risk pregnancy so I don’t think I qualify 😭 but how I know the heartache of wanting that baby and wish I could give that to another family.

  • Elizabeth C.
    02/19/2020 05:06

    I was a surrogate and gave birth to a baby boy 8 months ago. I'm so glad that I was able to help a couple become parents.

  • LaVonne B.
    02/17/2020 22:22

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  • Tracey B.
    02/13/2020 10:41

    It's wonderful that a woman can help another family so willingly. It's a beautiful thing.

  • Fran B.
    02/11/2020 05:55

    Yet there are so many orphans and foster care children who needs parents why do they not get a chance at parents who can’t have kids?

  • Ebony G.
    02/11/2020 01:49

  • Carole J.
    02/06/2020 15:32

    Beautiful ! ❤😊

  • Nancy D.
    02/06/2020 01:39

    😩

  • Nancy D.
    02/05/2020 03:29

    😩😩😩😩😩

  • Taylor K.
    02/03/2020 19:23

    ugh my heart

  • Naomi L.
    01/30/2020 01:41

    They have so many restrictions for people who want to become surrogate mothers many don’t qualify at all I know I’ve tried.....

  • Kara L.
    01/28/2020 16:38

    I thought you would really like this.

  • Nakalema M.
    01/28/2020 08:30

    I have been looking for this too

  • Joanna F.
    01/27/2020 00:32

    who are we to judge?

  • Fartoun I.
    01/26/2020 04:02

    This is bad habit I really hate it 😥

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    01/25/2020 05:30

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