Daughters miss father’s funeral and attend final rites on video call
A father spent his final days in an old age home. After his death, his children attended his funeral over a video call, dividing social media over opinions on family, distance and responsibility.
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The death of a 78-year-old man from Haryana's Sonipat has triggered an emotional conversation about ageing, loneliness and changing family relationships after his three daughters watched his last rites over a video call instead of attending in person.
Shivcharan Ram Ratan Gupta, a former textile trader originally from Mumbai, died at an old-age home in Sonipat after a prolonged illness. The cremation was performed by the home's staff and local residents while his daughters joined remotely from Nepal, Uttar Pradesh and Mumbai.
Who Was Shivcharan Ram Ratan Gupta?
Gupta had been living in the old-age home for nearly two years. He had moved there with his wife, Meena, who passed away earlier.
According to the old-age home, Gupta spent much of his life educating and raising his three daughters. Two of them later became teachers. He remained in touch with them through regular phone calls while living at the facility.
What Happened Before His Death?
The old-age home's administrator, Anand Kumar, said Gupta's health had been deteriorating for several weeks. The family was informed around 20 days before his death and was updated about his condition.
Gupta died at around 3.30 am after battling a prolonged illness. Following his death, the management again contacted his daughters and informed them about the funeral arrangements.
Why Did the Daughters Attend the Funeral Virtually?
According to the old-age home, the daughters said they could not travel to Sonipat in time for the cremation.
Instead, they joined the funeral proceedings through a video call. The cremation was carried out by the old-age home staff with support from members of the local community.
One of the daughters, Anita, who works as a teacher in Nepal, transferred Rs 5,100 online and requested that her father's last rites be conducted properly.
The management also said that after the cremation, the daughters requested videos of the funeral proceedings.
What Happened to His Ashes?
Initially, the family asked the old-age home to preserve Gupta's ashes. Later, they informed the management that they would not be able to travel to Sonipat and requested the home to immerse the ashes in the Ganga on their behalf.
His Eyes Were Donated
Following his death, Gupta's eyes were donated in accordance with the family's wishes. The donation could help restore vision to people in need through corneal transplantation.
Why the Incident Has Sparked Debate
The incident has drawn widespread attention on social media, with many people discussing the growing challenges faced by elderly parents living away from their families.
While the circumstances that prevented the daughters from travelling are not fully known, the case has raised broader questions about elder care, migration, family responsibilities and the increasing number of senior citizens spending their final years in old-age homes.
The story has also reignited conversations about how technology is changing the way families remain connected, even during life's most significant moments.
Daughters miss father’s funeral and attend final rites on video call
A father spent his final days in an old age home. After his death, his children attended his funeral over a video call, dividing social media over opinions on family, distance and responsibility.
/
/
The death of a 78-year-old man from Haryana's Sonipat has triggered an emotional conversation about ageing, loneliness and changing family relationships after his three daughters watched his last rites over a video call instead of attending in person.
Shivcharan Ram Ratan Gupta, a former textile trader originally from Mumbai, died at an old-age home in Sonipat after a prolonged illness. The cremation was performed by the home's staff and local residents while his daughters joined remotely from Nepal, Uttar Pradesh and Mumbai.
Who Was Shivcharan Ram Ratan Gupta?
Gupta had been living in the old-age home for nearly two years. He had moved there with his wife, Meena, who passed away earlier.
According to the old-age home, Gupta spent much of his life educating and raising his three daughters. Two of them later became teachers. He remained in touch with them through regular phone calls while living at the facility.
What Happened Before His Death?
The old-age home's administrator, Anand Kumar, said Gupta's health had been deteriorating for several weeks. The family was informed around 20 days before his death and was updated about his condition.
Gupta died at around 3.30 am after battling a prolonged illness. Following his death, the management again contacted his daughters and informed them about the funeral arrangements.
Why Did the Daughters Attend the Funeral Virtually?
According to the old-age home, the daughters said they could not travel to Sonipat in time for the cremation.
Instead, they joined the funeral proceedings through a video call. The cremation was carried out by the old-age home staff with support from members of the local community.
One of the daughters, Anita, who works as a teacher in Nepal, transferred Rs 5,100 online and requested that her father's last rites be conducted properly.
The management also said that after the cremation, the daughters requested videos of the funeral proceedings.
What Happened to His Ashes?
Initially, the family asked the old-age home to preserve Gupta's ashes. Later, they informed the management that they would not be able to travel to Sonipat and requested the home to immerse the ashes in the Ganga on their behalf.
His Eyes Were Donated
Following his death, Gupta's eyes were donated in accordance with the family's wishes. The donation could help restore vision to people in need through corneal transplantation.
Why the Incident Has Sparked Debate
The incident has drawn widespread attention on social media, with many people discussing the growing challenges faced by elderly parents living away from their families.
While the circumstances that prevented the daughters from travelling are not fully known, the case has raised broader questions about elder care, migration, family responsibilities and the increasing number of senior citizens spending their final years in old-age homes.
The story has also reignited conversations about how technology is changing the way families remain connected, even during life's most significant moments.
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