The evolution of “coming out”

Gay men have been “coming out” as early as the 1930s. Today, the term has been used by those coming out as undocumented, fat, and even polygamist.

Coming out about coming out

Historical context

Originally used when elite young women would come out into high society, the gay community originally borrowed the term in the 1930s to describe coming out into gay culture. There was literally coming out to balls where gay men would dress in drag and enter gay culture, but as the 1940s arrived, it became more of a spoken coming out. The term did not become radicalized until the late 1960s. Coming out was then extended to expressing social change rather than just inclusion.

Closeted Thinking

“We often think of coming out as disclosing something about yourself that other people don't know, like coming out as gay, in a context that people didn't know that you were gay. But sometimes it means talking openly about something that people know… Coming out is telling a friend, a loved one, a classmate, a teacher something that otherwise you would have kept private. It is using our lives and stories as a political tool for change. Sometimes people talk about other groups co-opting or appropriating. But what I found is that it's actually the same people, right. It's people who are members of both groups that see the parallel and feel like it’s something similar,” author of Come Out, Come Out, Whoever You Are Abigail Saguy explains to Brut.

Who else uses the term?

In the past, there have been movements for the plus-sized community, #MeToo, polygamists, and undocumented immigrants that have utilized the phrase “coming out” to bring awareness and to put faces to their causes. Especially in the cases of #MeToo and undocumented immigrants, social media has played a huge role in how individuals come out. While there are debates about the term being used outside of the LGBTQ+ community, what they can all agree on is that going through this process takes back the control often taken from these minorities.


03/01/2020 3:00 PM


  • West J.
    05/06/2020 14:59

    Forcing people to like something they don't and climbing they are a victim makes things worse groupie staff causes more damage than anything people need to be neutral and respect other people

  • Donnie R.
    03/10/2020 17:31

    How do you come out as fat? Walk outside?

  • Ginger D.
    03/07/2020 08:12

    And the people behind this video are choosing to obsess about this topic for what reason?

  • Rick A.
    03/07/2020 04:49

    molie , molie molie

  • Nevin S.
    03/03/2020 10:26

    the only mental health disorder which is celebrated

  • Wesley Z.
    03/02/2020 12:46

    ICK 💯👊👊☃️👻✨🇦🇫☹️🤔

  • Phoenix L.
    03/01/2020 17:01

    Its just another form of depopulation!!

  • Elmer D.
    03/01/2020 16:00

    Not a good idea to lump all disenfranchised as one ,

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